Hi Duri,
The default symbol is a simple round point, 'MapInfo Cartographic' (B2) size 10. I understand what you were saying about the stick-pins though, we had similar experience with the little dog symbol 'MapInfo Miscellaneous' (B8), you have to click on their front feet to select that symbol style!
As mentioned in my original post, it appears with point layers that you need to apply a 'thematic' to make points selectable, even if it is a simple one style point across all features, you still need to make it a thematic!
We haven't any legend issues, just the selection issue on points.
Regards,
Tony