?The GDA 2020 datum is in MiPro 17 and Spectrum Spatial 12.2. You should be able to create data in using that datum or convert older tables to it. Or just compare the on the fly reprojection by using it in your map projection. Its in there.
Not sure what FME is doing or using but probably PROJ4J? Can you give us some examples of the data that matters?
As I said earlier, only the special future datum shifts need to be enabled in the NTV2. So we should be able to try this process today.
I believe our QA said that the website had no data for the "distortion" results. But I did not look myself.
As for SSA specifically, if your maps are being displayed on top of Bing or Google, then the map will never be using that datum. So any data that you have will be automatically reprojected by Spectrum Spatial to Popular Mercator (EPSG:3857) which is what those tiles are in.
Thus in that simple test, the code we have for datum conversion from GDA2020 to Pseudo Spherical WGS84 will be exercised. A good and simple test.
if you try this and have any issues, let us know but also create or transform data using our products (Pro or Spatial) and see if there is any difference.